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Kristin DeMarr's avatar

I’m always out of spoons and bandwidth! I can’t ever figure out how to replenish. Time with friends helps, but it always seems to be at the expense of something else getting neglected, and it’s always literally an expense that I can’t always afford.

I can empathize with most people, and the loss of a pet can be quite devastating! Regardless of the type of pet. They become our family. I agree with your reflections on the cultural and societal issues here with telling people essentially to suck it up and move on. It’s just not an easy thing for some people and it’s challenging to move forward when something devastating happens.

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Gill Benzion's avatar

Couldn't agree more. Still, I can understand the point of view of those who have never enjoyed pet custodianship or struggle with empathy, I just wish in this particular case my friend was more open minded. I hope you find a way to replenish your spoons, Kristin!

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